Words can’t describe how much am in shock about what men do to women in relationships. At first I thought, it’s one of those trends where women come to talk about how unfair men are until it dawned on me that this is not just a trend about men and the crazy things they do to women.
Now notice the key statement in their narratives is “I did not kill him.” The only question that kept resounding in my mind, was, with all this tragedy that someone just brings to someone’s life and they don’t ever think of killing, what reason does one have to take someone’s life?
These ladies are simply saying, whatever men claim that they are going through is nothing. Paying bills is nothing, having to go to work everyday and sustain yourself is nothing, honestly speaking telling you to put your clothes in the laundry basket is nothing.
After what these ladies have narrated about what men have put them through, one can only say, men need to do better. Enough of the defensive arguments, enough of the behavior justification, men need to do better.
The most fascinating thing about this is the fact that we have heard men who have killed women, because they asked for money for food. Men have killed women for cheating men have killed women because of failing to prepare food, or refusing to get intimate with them and yet women have taken loans for men, women have been bewitched women have been beaten almost to death and yet rarely would you hear a story that a woman killed a man.
All a woman needs is a stable home. All you’ve got to do in your life is make her feel like she made the right choice when she chose you.
All it takes is a consistent sweet good morning, a consistent roof over her head, a consistent moment of cracking jokes, and a consistent good night sleep.
These are the things that make a sensible woman happy. Everything else is a lie but of course Society is in the eats of men. In the end we shall all see the fruits of a great marriage in our 40s
Most men want the most prettiest girl in the world and they forget that this is what gives her the options and so even if you buy her flowers open doors for her, treat her like a princess, she will leave because she has the options.
When women of today act with a lot of arrogance and attitude. as a guy of this generation, I need you to understand that they are simply trying to protect themselves from men like Lerato’s ex. You are not that type but the same way you are trying to get into her heart as a genuine man is the same way Lerato’s ex is trying to get to your girl’s heart.
After all is said and done, regardless of the gender violence is bad. Lies are bad, manipulation is bad.